If Managers And Players Are Hurt, They Should Say It,
Opinion Piece
Living in a small town where the G.A.A is so big, I got my fair share of criticism during my time with the Lurgan Mail, (1996/2018).
Dealing with what had become the "new religion", was different in the days when fans went one to one, not having the luxury of the sometimes-faceless social media pages to vent frustrations.
One particular story comes to mind, when Armagh were climbing to the top (before 2002) I asked a player did being targeted for criticism in national newspapers annoy him, the not very convincing response was "I don't read newspapers and couldn't care less what a reporter or T.V. pundit say about me" . Many years later the same player when he finally retired from the game admitted to having read every single line and heard every word aimed in his direction, saying "It not only bothered me but had a very bad effect on my family also", he then qualified his remarks by saying "reading criticism help drive me on to prove them wrong".
It sounds almost bazaar, but compiling reports which included the former county player, brought a sub conscience notion that singling the guy out for less praise would have no effect on him whatsoever. Is this now the case where team managers and indeed some players are hiding behind a veneer of bravado which is concealing their true feelings.
Do they not read papers ? and ignore social media posts, many of which are seen by their families, In an era where "mind your head" is the new buzz word, is it time for players and managers to "come out", and say "yes this is hurtful, and it does annoy me" Maybe, just maybe the key board worriors will see the "target" as being human. On the new releigon theme, , a clergy man said recently" In the past when Sunday mass was on, our local club didn't train or play matches, in the modern era we have to check the football fixtures months in advance to fit around a tiny window of opportunity to arrange a cemetery mass, if we clashed with a big game we all know who the winners would be". The newspaper hacks hate social media, but see it as "a necessary evil". (with some positives)
Managers and players, "Mind the head". a top G.A.A official once said in answer to the question, if one had to close would it be the club or the chapel ?, he said" the chapel could close, sure we could say mass in the club"." The New Releigon, that can bring you to your knees", (from the song black velvet about the rise of Elvis Presley)
Wee piece I just read on Facebook !
Maybe time to give the county team and management a rest and go again next year